The Force Within and the Light of Eärendil: Emphasizing Values in Play Therapy

Values. So often emphasized, yet so often under-utilized. Every agency, company, and board outlines their values, typically in public and vocal manners, but how often are behaviors, choices, and decisions made that align with them? How often in our training as therapists are we instructed on how to act (or how not to), without developing a foundational sense of professional identity? How often are children told what is important, how it is best to behave, and what is right or wrong without deeper ethical orientation or without adequate examples?

In the world of play therapy, toys and techniques often take center stage—but at the heart of truly transformative sessions lies something deeper: values. These guiding principles are not just background concepts; they shape the entire therapeutic experience, both for the clinician and the child. For clinicians, a strong connection to their own core values—such as empathy, respect, patience, or authenticity—creates a foundation of trust and safety in the playroom.

When a therapist is rooted in clear, compassionate values, they are better equipped to meet the child where they are, without judgment or expectation. Values guide the way we set boundaries, respond to conflict, maintain groundedness in emotion, and create an environment that honors each child's unique story.

For child clients, play therapy offers a rare opportunity to begin exploring their own emerging sense of values. Through play, children can reflect on concepts like fairness, kindness, bravery, and belonging. When clinicians gently highlight these moments—whether a puppet shows forgiveness or a block tower represents perseverance—children start to internalize the idea that their feelings, choices, and values matter.

In essence, values in play therapy act like an invisible hand, helping both therapist and child move together toward healing, growth, and self-understanding. Keeping values in focus ensures that therapy remains not just a method, but a meaningful journey.

Want to learn more? During the Geek Play Therapy Summit 2025, in the training “Jedi Wisdom and The Fellowship of Healing: Integrating Values in Play Therapy”, Madison Duran dives deeper into the realm of values in play therapy, incorporating geek elements along the journey. Register with this link: https://www.anewhopeacademy.org/geekplaysummit 

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Madison (Madi) is a therapist, adventurer, and steadfast guide for young heroes on their journeys. EMDR-trained and working toward her Registered Play Therapist credential, Madi primarily works with children ages 4–14 and adults, using a blend of play therapy, EMDR, cognitive-behavioral therapy, and narrative techniques. With bachelor's and master's degrees in social work, she believes deeply in the resilience of children and the power of a safe, nurturing space. Outside of the therapy room, you’ll find Madi lifting weights, baking sourdough, practicing yoga, or enjoying epic quests with her loved ones and fur babies. A proud Lord of the Rings fan, she knows that even the smallest person can change the course of the future.